Archive | January, 2010

OK – As Promised….The Dollar Store Wedding Gown…

31 Jan

Look What You Can Do With $10 Worth of Dollar-Store Stuff:

Look closely at the dress.  Can you tell what materials Myrlin used? I think this is the coolest of the cool – a test of the imagination!  Check this post to read about how Myrlin went about this project, and what she used.

Oh, BTW, Myrlin also sent me another cool link to check out her book – a “browse-inside” feature at the Harper Collins website that will allow you to read the first 2.5 chapters of  The Lunatic, the Lover, and the Poet.  

See below for more views of the dress.

Have fun!

 

How Creative Can One Person Be?

30 Jan

I recently met a woman online who has apparently been blessed with the creative gene from head to toe.  Myrlin Ambrosia Hermes (and she says Yes, that is her real name) has written a novel based on the premise that Hamlet was gay.  Shakespeare Gone Topsy-Turvy as she calls it. The book was just released from Harper Perennial on Tuesday – I’ve ordered my copy but haven’t received it yet.  (it was on sale at Amazon, BTW).

Anyway, I became aware of her through her Guest Blog Post on a well-known literary agent’s blog.  Her post was one of the best, and most helpful, posts I’ve ever read.  She explained clearly and very informatively about how to make your own video trailer for marketing, without spending much money and without really knowing what you’re doing. (Check out her trailer here). I’ve made a video trailer for Is Harvey Dunne?, and the process was pretty brutal. I wish I’d had her suggestions before I made mine (I don’t know how I didn’t find the free sites she did!).

In addition, when I visited her website, I saw that she is apparently a very good seamstress as well.  She went to a literary ball, and made her dress a walking advertisement.  Her skirt was made of pages from her book, and the waistline was circled by copies of the cover.  Her bodice displayed the words  take a page from my book. Then  people could just pluck a sample from her skirt.  Now how creative is that?  Very cool.

In addition, she’d apparently been watching a reality show about making gowns out of paper, and decided to try an experiment – she would make a bridal gown solely from items she’d purchased from the dollar store.  Impossible, you say??   Think again.  I didn’t realize I was looking at dollar store material until I zoomed in for a closer inspection.  (Note: I tried to locate the pic on her site, but I think she may have removed it. I’ll ask her about it, and if I get it, I’ll post a picture). Creativity just piled upon creativity.

To top it off, I emailed Myrlin, and she sent me a long email in reply.  Friendly and talented – you can’t beat that!

Link to her book at Amazon.

 

Link to her book at Barnes & Noble.

 

 

Myrlin A. Hermes

Is the Self-Published Author World Connivingly Indie-Cent?

16 Jan

I recently responded to a blog post from someone who was accusing all Indie authors of  foolishly “banding together,” even though some of their fellow Indie-authors’ work was crap.  Well…

As I see it, Indie authors are just like any other group with common goals – they tend to congregate together and support each other because they are people who share many of the same aspirations.  They can empathize with each other, because they understand the common struggle.  And you’ve got to admit, the collective voice of a huge group of people gets more attention than each of their individual voices. This is what I see as supporting others in a similar circumstance – you’re walking the same path, and know how the bumps in the road are sometimes very hard to navigate, so you want to help those traveling the same road have an easier journey.

 However….I don’t think this is the same as giving praise for a job well done, and making recommendations regarding the author’s work.  No one should do that unless they truly enjoyed the read, and truly feel that the writing is worthy of recommendation.  I wholeheartedly agree.  But on the flip-side, I don’t think people should discount an Indie author’s work just because they’re an Indie author (and this sad discrimination happens all the time) – they should actually read the work and then critique it, just like they would for a traditionally-published author.

Just to give an example to prove that many, many Indie authors take pride in their work, there was an article on a book review site recently which gave a very lacerating review of the work of a prolific Indie author, and there were a number of comments by other Indies who were appreciative of the negative review, and were glad that someone was finally distinguishing that particular author from the Indies who were truly serious about their work.

But I think it’s not just the Indie author community that our observations relate to – it’s really any community of people with the same occupations, hobbies, or goals.  Look at the traditionally-published author community. I would bet that most authors would give support to other authors.  But recommending their work might be something totally different.  As a matter of fact, I read a quote by one very famous, successful author which slammed another famous, successful author because he thought her writing skills were sub-standard.

And the commentator mentioned a  cover “cover-up” (in which other self-pub authors were praising a horrendous cover) brings to mind the same thing happening to me, but for a new book being published by a major publisher for an author represented by a very well known literary agent.  The agent was publicizing the cover of the book, and commented on how awesome it was.  His comments were then echoed by about 200 people in the forum on his blog.  I HONESTLY THOUGHT IT WAS A JOKE!!!  I thought my eight-year-old kid could have drawn a better cover, and I seriously hoped she hadn’t shelled out too much cash for it (actually, I couldn’t believe she had shelled out any cash for it).  But after a little more research, I realized……it was no joke!  They were VERY serious. So go figure!

So, I don’t think we’re all covering up for each other just to sell books.  I’m an Indie author and I’m not going to recommend a work that should only be called a book because it’s typed on paper with a binding.  But I might kindly suggest some workshops that you might find helpful.  :o )

Are Your Goals Stuck on the Corner of Desperation and Despair?

9 Jan

 

I don’t know about you, but when I really, really want something, I tend to push, push, push to reach my goal.  But more likely than not, it seems the harder I try, the more elusive my goal becomes.

                                               How is that?

A wise friend recently told me – thanks K.W.!  (and we’ve had this conversation several times before, but maybe I wasn’t giving it my continued attention?) that sometimes when you push so hard, you overshoot your goal, and your stars won’t align in the pattern needed to bring success.

                                                Hmmm.

 But, I asked, what about the person who is rewarded for trying hard; for that never-say-die spirit that seems to propel them out of the normal human realm of accomplishment?  My question was simple: How do you know when you should be pushing and not giving up, or when you just need to pull back, take a few deep breaths, and wait for your universe to properly align?

 Well, the answer lies with the energy you broadcast during your struggle for success. If you’re push-push-pushing out of desperation, or despair, you’re going to broadcast this negative energy.  But if you attempt to achieve your goals and dreams with enthusiasm, joy, and a positive spirit, your positive energy will be felt as well. People can intuitively feel these things, and then react to them, maybe without even realizing it.

 It’s just like the couple who’s tried for years to get pregnant, but adopted because they never could. Then shortly after, they popped out three kids of their own.  Or the woman who tried desperately to find a husband as her internal clock was ticking down, but to no avail.  Then when she finally gave up, the man of her dreams just seemed to appear out of nowhere. We’ve all heard these stories, and wondered how they were possible; not understanding how they happened, but knowing that they did.

 It’s the same with being on a mission to reach your goals and dreams.  Approach the mission with confidence, happiness, and a positive spirit, and when you least expect it, the planets and stars in your universe will suddenly align, and you will reach your destination: Success!

How Does One Become Sophisticated At Using Twitter?…

7 Jan

Beats the livin’

crap outta me!!!

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I Wish I Had the Power…

6 Jan

I was thinking just this morning that I wish I had the power to make an impact in the world in a very big way.

You know, through my writing, or in a social services job helping others.

And then it just dawned on me – a lightbulb lit up my brain: 

I do have the power, and I’ve always had it. 

Because each of us can affect those we live around, work around, or just interact with.  Believe it or not, a simple smile is a very powerful gesture.  It can lift people up, and let them know that we each can find happiness and joy in just simple things.  Kind words will pass a positive spirit to someone who might have needed a boost that day.

And a smile is quite contagious. 

You can let others know you care by these simple acts, and greatly impact your world, every day, in a positive way!!

(Believe me, I know it sounds sappy.  But it’s true and it works!  Try it.)

New Magazine for Independent Authors is On Its Way…

1 Jan

For those of you interested in the work of Independent Authors, there is a new web magazine that’s going online -

The Indie Times.

Please check it out.  It is being published by the operator of The Book Journal (Indie Book Reviewer) and IndiePendentBooks (online bookstore for Indie Authors). 

So spread the word, and help give Indie Authors the attention they deserve. Thanks!!!

On “Being Normal”…

1 Jan

Just What Does It Mean To Be Normal???

I hate the word NORMAL.

What does it really mean? And isn’t it just a matter of perspective?  After all, what may be normal to you may not be normal to me.

When a person it told to just be normal, there is obviously the implication that they are not normal,  that something is wrong with them, that they are lacking in some basic human way. 

I’ve always retaliated against the word NORMAL.  To me it means conformity, a lack of individuality, a deficit in creativity.  It means operating INSIDE the box, when all the action is OUTSIDE the box.  Who would want that?

I guess it’s not normal to love dark clouds and rain, instead of sunshine?  Or to want to write your feelings instead of speak them.  Or to love sad and haunting music instead of up-beat tunes. Or to draw pictures or read instead of enjoying a day outside. 

If it weren’t for those of us who aren’t NORMAL, the world would be devoid of color and sparkle and excitement.  It would be a very boring place.

So to all the people who strive for normalcy in their lives, I hope you find the balance in life that you are looking for.  But as for me….I will not only walk away from the word NORMAL, but I will run as fast as I can.

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